DOES SIZE REALLY MATTER FOR GREAT SEX?? GET IN HERE

One of the contemporary social and marital issues of our time is sex. In the last decade and half, awareness about sex, sexuality and sexual issues have increased dramatically across all borders of the society, including age, sex, economic and social levels.
Women, especially in traditional settings such as in Nigeria and many African and developing nations, who hitherto often treat the topic as somewhat taboo, a ritual to be performed under the covers of the night, and another wifely duty to please the men, now have a change of attitude.
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Many women have discovered the great pleasures and therapeutic powers of good sex. And I mean, good, pleasurable and satisfying sex. Along with this awareness however, many other issues have come up.
I saw a video clip of one of Nigeria’s ace comedians, Okey Bakasi recently where he was asking the female audience to decide on the duration of time good sex should last. He said this was necessary in order to allow the men prepare adequately or decide on what to do so that men will stop dying in active service.

Yes, is it five minutes, 20, 30, one hour or just how long would sex last for a woman to say she has had a good time. I find this as controversial as the issue of the size of the sex organs. While the female sex organ is believed to be elastic in nature, thus capable of contracting and enlarging to suit the size of the male organ, the male organ does not enjoy such freedom and this has continued to pose great emotional and psychological problems for couples, especially the men.

As a relationship counsellor, these two issues, size of penis and premature ejaculation top the list of problems of male respondents, especially. It’s either my organ is too small or too big, or how do I increase the size of my penis or how can I last longer during sex?

Perhaps, the new sexual consciousness and revolution is also taking its toll on the situation. Sex is no longer a topic to be discussed in secret. Almost on a daily basis as you flip through the pages of newspapers and magazines, issues concerning sex and relationships stare you in the face.


Sex shops are now found scattered all over the big cities and most of them are smiling all the way to the banks selling various forms of potions aimed at size reduction or enhancement of the sex organs. But while this business booms, sexologists believe the problem, particularly in men is more psychological than physical. But some others insist it is both and is even capable of causing serious major problems in relationships if not properly tackled.

The new year provides us an opportunity for new beginnings in almost every area of our lives. And if your sex life needs revamping, it is never too late. Let’s relax and hear it from our male respondents who are in the centre of this.
To achieve great sex, does size really matter?


Source:vanguardng