[ARTICLE] 6 REASONS WHY MEN CHEAT!!!

Now this is not the first time,we will be talking about cheating habits among genders but for the purpose of this article we will be concentrating on the male folks,yes basically because they do the most but without being biased ladies cheat too and it can be very messy when they do but let's not spill the milk because that's a story for another day

The reason men cheats differs but the one that is mind disturbing is the rate at which married people cheat without remembering their marital oath......... It has become a culture,a way of life that people are now used to let me not deviate too much let's tell you why that man is cheating on you..everything might not be for you but most definitely one will be for YOU

WHY IS HE CHEATING ON YOU
1. He’s afraid of confrontation.
Your guy may be unhappy with you, but he also may not have the courage to walk up to you.
A friend ones said,
“If [guys] are not into the relationship, but they’re afraid to break things off, they might turn to cheating as a way to work around that,” says Alex,“If you stay unhappy in a relationship long enough, some guys will end up doing whatever it takes to find happiness.”
If you suspect your man is unhappy and getting a little side action, do what he doesn’t have the guts to do: Confront him. And then kick him to the curb. A guy without guts doesn’t deserve you, anyway.

2. He’s simply bored.
Some pretty basic reason for why guys go astray.
“[Guys cheat] because they get bored,” he says. “Guys are visual creatures, and we like new material. some get bored of a relationship after the early phase is over


3. You’re taking him for granted.
if you’ve been a little lax on giving your guy love lately, he may turn to other means for finding it.
“Guys cheat because of the way the other woman makes them feel,” she says. “Many women jump to the conclusion that a man cheats because he finds a younger, hotter woman that he cannot resist. But the fact is, often in relationships, couples start taking each other for granted, forgetting to compliment each other or make each other feel special. If you aren't making your man feel special, make an effort before someone else does.”
A friend agrees that some guys roam due to a lack of warmth and gratitude from their partners.
“Many men cheat on their girlfriends and wives for the same reasons some women cheat on their boyfriends and husbands — because they don't feel loved or appreciated,” he says. “More often than not, it represents a lack of communication in the relationship. It is often assumed that the man is a scumbag who never really cared at all, and in many cases this is true. But the men in question are also hurting themselves, because they are failing to be honest with themselves and others about what they want from other people.”
Listen up, ladies: don’t forget to show your man some affection! Give him backrubs, lots of gestures and occasional surprises. Or just remind him how much you mean to him every so often. Men want to feel wanted just as much as women, and if you don’t provide him with that feeling, there’s a chance he may turn elsewhere for it.


4. He just wants it both ways.

It’s totally self-seeking, but some men want the thrill of a sexual endeavor with another partner while also maintaining their real, emotional relationships.
“I think guys cheat on girls because the [sexual] opportunity arises with another girl, but at the same time, they don't want to give up on what they've built so far with their partner,” “Why would anyone want to? Maybe because they weigh the pros and cons of the situation, and they make the selfish choice of going with that girl, assuming it won't be found out.”
In a nutshell, the guy finds it particularly exciting to hook up with a new girl, but at the same time, he doesn’t want to lose the original connection.

5. He’s afraid of getting hurt.
While it’s never okay to cheat in a relationship where both parties are committed, this reasoning is probably the least of all evils.
If you’re in a long-distance relationship, consider how serious you both are. Can both of you handle the distance? Will either of you be tempted to cheat? Is it better off to be apart?
And if he’s simply too afraid to get attached because, well, guys have issues, too , consider talking to him before he goes off the path. You’ll know he’s scared of getting hurt if you suddenly feel him pulling away or growing distant.
Be patient; it’s tough for guys to open up!

6. He feels sexually inadequate.
If your guy feels like he’s not pleasing you, he may wander for this very reason.
The easy access to pornography, and especially at such a young age, has created in many a false sense of what a sexual relationship should be like. Most men and women are inexperienced at sex. Just because a man is wired to have sex doesn't mean he is good, and when things don't go well in bed with a mate or meet up to his expectations, suddenly it is her fault, not realizing he doesn't know how to please her to even create a desire and wonderment about sex

Talk about what you like and don’t like, and make sure you find out what he wants, too! Instead of critiquing his moves, boost his ego by giving him lots of compliments when he’s doing it right — men love to feel sexually desired, and if he feels desired by you, he won’t feel the need to find that desire or “wonderment” somewhere else.

Cheating hurts, no matter the reason why it happened. However, it’s good to have a little insight as to why he committed the act in order to better prevent it from happening again in your current or future relationships.
Like I say men are bigger babies treat them as such and he will be yours for a long time if not forever....