QUESTIONS TO ASK YOUR PARTNER BESIDES THE BORING “HOW WAS YOUR DAY?”

If you don’t want throw away answers, you can’t ask throw away questions.”
 connect with your spouse everyday. A few questions we recommended were based on understanding the struggles and successes of our spouse’s day

you don’t want irrelevant answers, then dont ask irrelevant questions


Here are some tried and true different questions to ask your spouse at the end of the day besides, “How was your day?



So often the only daily re-cap my man and I give each other is,

“How was today?”

“Fine, yours?”

“ fine.”

In this part of the world,partners way of showing they care is asking "HAVE YOU EATEN?"

Grrrthhh This conversation doesn’t do much by way of bringing partners closer to each other or make it easy to talk about how our day was.  This isn’t because we’re wrong to ask it or because we don’t care for each other, rather its because we’re just asking each other the incorrect questions.

If you and your partner are stuck in the “How was your day?” “Fine” boring conversation, try switching up the question! 


What was the best part of your day?”“

What was the success you had today?”“

What energized you today? Tell me darling, you know am part of your life “

What was something hard that happened today? If its hard darling lets talk about it we could make it easy

What did you struggle with today?”“

What drained you today

I did some more research on better questions to ask, and BAE and I have been experimenting in asking each other new questions at night when we talk.

“Did you listen to anything interesting today?If you could do any part of today over again, what would it be?

What app did you open most today?
And smile at intervals,touch him if he's with you be his peace

How can I make your day easier in 5 minutes?

What did you do to take care of yourself today?

When did you feel appreciated today?

If you could guarantee one thing for tomorrow what would it be?

What made you laugh today?

Did you give anyone side-eye today? Then laugh,tease him.. What did they do to deserve it?

“When did you feel loved today?

When did you feel lonely?What did I do today that made you feel appreciated?

What did I say that made you feel unnoticed?

What can I do to help you right now?Were there any times you felt proud of yourself today?” 




So, BAE and I are getting better, but we’ve had our fair share of failed questions as well.  Take it from us, here are some questions you shouldnt ask your spouse instead of “How was your day?”:

What have you been doing all day?

Why is there orange juice on the carpet?Don’t you think it might be better to talk to your boss about that?

Dont be petty!!

When WILL you _ (turn in that application? call your mom?

 do the dishes? take the wet and now mildewy towels from swim lessons out of the bag?)Isn’t it your turn to put the kids to bed?

Learn from our mistakes....


Let’s re-cap.

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ADETOLA......